The Cancer man is the most emotional of all the zodiac signs. He places much importance on what other people think about him. This can cause his moods to quickly change from funny to quiet and then to sad. The Cancer also has no tolerance for rejection and tends to over protect himself to avoid having his feelings hurt.
Early in a relationship he may come across as shy or even cold and indifferent. The Cancer will reveal his true feelings to a woman only when he feels relaxed and comfortable around her. Once a woman earns his trust, she will find him to be a passionate, committed partner who is gentle, polite and easy to love.
How To Impress A Cancer
A Cancer man is attracted to a woman who is girlish, sensible and friendly. He finds innocence and neediness a turn on and is less inclined to pursue a woman who has a high-profile career, is a tomboy or model-thin. The woman who will win his heart must be patient, understanding and trustworthy.
Because the Cancer thrives on security, he needs constant reassurance that he is loved. Touching his arm, rubbing his shoulders or holding his hand will help remind him of a woman's devotion. The Cancer is affectionate and enjoys physical contact.
Often the Cancer can become irrational and moody. When upset, he is unable to think logically. A woman in a relationship with a Cancer must adjust to his mood swings and be willing to leave him alone until his dark mood passes. When he is ready to talk, she can offer suggestions on how to resolve what is troubling him.
What To Avoid
A woman should never gossip about her relationship with a Cancer. The Cancer man is discreet and prefers to keep the intimate details of his relationship between him and his partner. A woman should not tell a Cancer any of her secrets until the relationship is secure. Although he can keep his own secrets, the Cancer will only keep another person's secrets as long as they are happy and together.
A Cancer man is ultra-sensitive and easily offended. Don't tease or jokingly make fun of him and avoid criticism. A Cancer believes he has been betrayed if his partner takes another person's side over his. Present a united front among others and discuss disagreements when alone.
Don't flatter a Cancer man unnecessarily. He expects complete honesty from his partner at all times. He is extremely intuitive and can sense insincerity. The Cancer views flattery that is not backed up with genuine intent as disloyal and dishonest. A woman who is open and honest, speaks tactfully and takes care not to hurt his feelings has the best chance of winning the devotion of this passionate, loyal, romantic man.
For more information on romance and the zodiac, read How To Win the Heart of a Leo Man and How To Win the Heart of an Aries Man.
Sources:
- Stella Starsky, Cosmic Coupling: The Sextrology of Relationships, Three Rivers Press, December 2009.
- Ophira Edut and Tali Eduit, The Astro Twins' Love Zodiac: The Essential Astrology Guide for Women, Sourcebooks Casablanca, November 2008.
- David Poind, Mapping your Romantic Relationships, Llewellyn Publications, June 2004.
- Stella Starsky, Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes, Harper Publications, January 2004
Danielle McGinnis - Danielle McGinnis is the mother of a college freshman and full-time freelance writer.
