Winning the heart of a Gemini man is never easy. A notorious fun-lover and party boy, Gemini doesn't concern himself with commitment, detests routine and loves freedom. He is also one of the most inconsistent zodiac signs. A Gemini man can be exciting, stimulating and full of variety, but a woman who is interested in a relationship with him must learn trust and patience.
How to Charm Him
A woman attempting to charm a Gemini man must be cheerful, funny and mysterious. Because he enjoys a challenge, he will pursue a woman as long as she appears unattainable. The Gemini is intelligent and loves to communicate. Keep his interest by telling jokes, entertaining him with funny stories and keeping up to date on current events. Shock him with a naughty joke and then give him an innocent smile.
Gemini men crave variety and change and have a strong desire to try to figure you out. Keep him guessing by not revealing everything about yourself. Once he believes there is nothing new to learn, he will become bored and look elsewhere. A woman can keep him on his toes by constantly switching from indifference to passion and then friendship.
The Gemini can be childish and enjoy playing emotional games. Surprise him with mentally stimulating activities such as guessing games. Don't be offended if he is friendly one day and indifferent the next. Keep your emotions under control and don't let him read you or know that he has charmed you. The more unpredictable and spontaneous you are, the harder he will fall.
What to Avoid
The Gemini man is born to socialize. He avoids commitment by showing a little bit of interest in everyone and everything. To capture his heart you must be patient and understanding. Because he enjoys flirting, a woman needs to overcome any jealous tendencies and realize that he usually flirts to see if anyone will flirt back, rather than to find a partner.
Don't waste time sitting at home waiting for a Gemini to call. Chances are he's too busy to pick up the phone. To win his affections, be independent and develop your own social life. Pursue a wide range of interests and talk to him about how much fun you're having. The Gemini man enjoys intelligent conversation and will not shy away from any topic, no matter how uncomfortable.
Lastly, resist the urge to push him into a commitment. The Gemini man may disappear if he feels you are trying to take away his freedom. Avoid asking questions like "How much do you love me?" He is convinced that the most important things do not need to be said and will show you his emotions in his own way when he is ready. Make him believe you love him just for now and are not concerned about the future. Once he believes you are as fun loving as he is, he'll want to focus his attention on you!
To learn more about a Scorpio man, read How to Win the Heart of a Scorpio Man.
Sources:
- Mark S. Husson, Love Scopes: What Astrology Knows About You and the Ones You Love, Hay House, April 2009.
- Ophira Edut and Tali Edut, The Astro Twins' Love Zodiac, Sourcebooks Casablanca, November 2008.
- David Pond, Mapping Your Romantic Relationships, Llewellyn Publications, June 2004.
- Amanda Owen, Lucky Stars: Use Astrology to Get the Scoop on Live, Love and Friendship, Three Rivers Press, September 2001.
Danielle McGinnis - Danielle McGinnis is the mother of a college freshman and full-time freelance writer.
