The Libra is the most charismatic and rational of all the zodiac signs. He is a handsome, macho guy who has a sweet, sensitive side. Women are drawn to him because he can relate to them on a feminine level. Because he is so laid back and friendly, the Libra has no problem making friends and enjoys having a large social circle around him.
A born diplomat and peacemaker, the Libra dislikes any type of conflict. He will go to great lengths to avoid an argument even when he knows he is right. In some instances this can make him appear insincere or untrustworthy.
How To Win His Heart
A Libra man is attracted to a woman who is sophisticated and well dressed. Any woman trying to catch his attention should be bright and curious and easily fit into his group of friends. He is also drawn to someone who has good manners and is fair and open minded.
Calling attention to how smart a Libra is or telling him how much you have learned from him are excellent ways to win his adoration. He is very responsive to flattery and admiration and enjoys when a woman compliments him generously and truthfully.
Because the Libra is easily influenced and often taken advantage of, he needs a woman who is willing to offer feedback and support. He is also easily confused and has difficulty making decisions. A woman in a relationship with a Libra should offer guidance and show patience when he makes up his mind then changes it a few seconds later.
What to Avoid
When romancing a Libra, a woman should let him know she is interested in a gentle, subtle way. She should not come on too strong, share all her secrets or gossip. The Libra man enjoys pursuing a woman who maintains an element of mystery.
Don't behave in a confrontational manner with a Libra. He dislikes any type of aggression and is turned off by a strong-willed partner who demands answers, attention or things. A woman should never criticize a Libra for being indecisive. She should express her opinion in a calm, gentle manner and then give him the space he needs to make a decision or reach a conclusion.
The Libra man is extremely sociable and places great importance on friendship. Although a woman may often feel neglected because she has to share him with others, she should never become jealous of his social circle or try to isolate him. A woman who knows how to enjoy the company of a Libra's friends has the best chance of winning his heart. When she does, she will find her Libra man to be a romantic, passionate partner who will help turn her dreams into reality.
For more information on romance and the zodiac read How to Win the Heart of a Pisces Man and How to Win the Heart of a Cancer Man.
Sources:
- Joanna Martine Woolfolk, The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need, Taylor Trade Publishing, June 2008.
- Gary Goldschneider and Joost Elffers, The Secret Language of Birthdays, Studio, October 2003.
- Sue Tompkins, Aspects in Astrology: A Guide to Understanding Planetary Relationship in the Horoscope, Destiny Books, September 202.
- Stella Starsky and Quinn Cox, Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes, Harper Paperbacks, January 2004.
- Joanna Woolfolk, Sexual Astrology: A Sign-by-Sign Guide to Your Sensual Stars, Dell, August 1979.
Danielle McGinnis - Danielle McGinnis is the mother of a college freshman and full-time freelance writer.
