The Aquarius man is the most cerebral of the zodiac signs. He is friendly, fascinating and an exciting mix of mischief and intellect. The Aquarius is secretive about himself but inquisitive about others. One of his favorite activities is to scrutinize someone's life and get to know their deepest thoughts and feelings.
Although the Aquarius is usually surrounded by a large group of acquaintances, he selects his close friends from those who best match his likes and dislikes. At times, he can appear detached, distant or cold. This occurs when he is distracted by his thoughts and obsessed with analyzing facts instead of accepting them.
In romance, an Aquarius can be emotionally reserved, leaving his partner frustrated and unsure of his feelings, especially early in a relationship. As the romance progresses, a woman will find him to be a committed partner who is mentally stimulating.
How To Win His Heart
An Aquarius man places less importance on looks than other zodiac signs. He is attracted to an intelligent woman who has a casual, relaxed appearance. A woman hoping to win his heart should be bright, independent and an excellent conversationalist. She should also have an unconventional mind and not be emotionally needy. The success of a relationship with an Aquarius is usually determined by the mental connection between him and the woman he is romancing.
An Aquarius needs a woman who can be both his friend and his romantic partner. He will not consider a relationship with a woman who does not share his views and interests. He is drawn to a woman who can hold an in-depth conversation, openly express her views and respect his.
A woman should not bore an Aquarius by telling him about herself early in the relationship. The Aquarius approaches love slowly and methodically. To keep him interested, it is best to let the courtship develop slowly and maintain and aura of mystery.
What to Avoid
Never lie to an Aquarius as they value honesty over romance. They are faithful, trusting partners who dislike any type of dishonesty, rudeness or hostility. A woman in a relationship with an Aquarius should be willing to discuss any differences in a tactful, open manner.
Avoid flirting in front of an Aquarius. He will hold a grudge and rarely forgives what he views as unfaithful behavior. Although the Aquarius presents a confident, free spirited image, he is somewhat insecure and looking for a woman who will give him her complete devotion.
Don't expect an Aquarius to express his feelings or show his love through romantic gestures. Although an Aquarius man can love deeply, he is uncomfortable telling a woman how much he cares for her. What he lacks in sentimentality, he will make up for with intellectual charm. Once an Aquarius is hooked, he will be a faithful, loving partner. Understanding that his cool exterior is a cover for his insecurities is the key to a lasting relationship.
For more information on romance and the zodiac read How To Win the Heart of a Libra Man.
Sources:
- Phillis F. Mitz M.A., Astrology's Secrets to Hot Romance: How to Find True Compatibility and the One Who's Right For You, HCI, January 2007.
- Hazel Dixon-Cooper, Love on a Rotten Day: An Astrological Survival Guide to Romance, Fireside, January 2004.
- Jenni Kosarin, The Everything Love Signs Book, Adams Media, January 2004.
- Stella Starsky, Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes, Harper Publications, January 2004.
- Stuart Hazleton, Sexscopes: How to Seduce, Stimulate and Satisfy Any Sign, Fireside, May 2001.
Danielle McGinnis - Danielle McGinnis is the mother of a college freshman and full-time freelance writer.
